Parental arguments may affect child development

Why are parental arguments not good for children? They may affect the child development through several ways:

  • Imitation of unhealthy conflicts
  • Feeling of insecurity and distrust
  • Repression of needs & emotions
  • Development of a sense of guilt

Ways to reduce the negative effects:

  • Deal with differences productively
  • Present a united front with your partner
  • Openly discuss the disagreement & reassure the child
  • Let children know it is not their fault